Hi friends, it has been a while since ui posted something here. Here is a guest post written by a male friend. read and post your opinion
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So many” boys”, so few real men.
I’m rather pissed off at all “stupid boys”,parading about like actual men.
Because these so “many boys ” have managed to cheat on so many women and break their trust, there seems to be very few women left who are willing to trust another man.
I’m certain that plenty of great guys have had to carry the baggage some other “douchebag ” left behind. When you break a woman’s trust, you will never get it back. I really mean never. Sadly, you’re also ruining it for the next guy.And by this,you’re ruining the whole society ,because we all come from a woman !
By cheating on a woman, you are screwing her over for the long run – she’ll likely be unable to trust another man for years to follow. Real men don’t cheat. Here’s why:
1.Real men are emotionally stable.
We usually hear about women having trouble controlling their emotions. Well,that could make sense in some way ,but truth be told, men are much worse:While women have the intelligence to share their feelings and discuss their problems (most of the time), men like to keep it bottled up.
Until, of course, they can’t take it any longer and explode. When something goes wrong in a relationship, women may very well cry, they may complain, they may throw tantrums or give you the silent treatment, but men – weak men – pretend like they feel nothing.
Once their cup flows over, they look for whatever release they can.
- They drink
- They smoke
- They mess
- They become crazy
and get mad‼.️Unfortunately, since they aren’t on talking terms with their woman, they mess whatever they can find. Real men ,however,deal with their emotions appropriately.
2.Real men have enough willpower to keep it in their pants.Yes ,they have!
I’m sorry to have to tell you this gentlemen, but because you are males naturally ,”you are going to want to sleep with every beautiful woman to your eyes,who crosses your path. Literally, every single one.”Forgive me but it was the case to Samson,David ,Solomon,etc,well you know the stories!
If you’re a real man, however, you won’t risk screwing up what you have for a brief few minutes in the sack with a woman you more than likely won’t have chemistry with. If you really want sex that badly then why not sleep with the woman who loves you?Your wife,your spouse?What”s hard with that ???
If the sex bores you, then do something to make it more exciting. It takes two to tango – if she won’t bring the whipped cream ,then I am sorry,it’s up to you to do so.Be the master .
3.Real christian men don’t start courting women they don’t love or don’t believe they can one day love!
They don”t infatuate.Important to say,”dating ” is a casual word that shouldn’t be a word in Christianity !A christian man and woman should start being together when courting(being together here doesn’t mean being carnally involved!)That was the case for Mary and Joseph!
Obviously, we all date people we aren’t yet certain we will fall for — if love at first sight exists, it’s rarely the case. However, many will date someone they don’t especially care about simply for convenience.(the truth)!So stop the so called”dates”!
Why go out to find tail when you can have it delivered? Real men understand that women aren’t objects and therefore don’t use them simply to satisfy their own needs.
When they know they don’t love a woman then they cut things off instead of continuing to lead them on.There”s totally no purpose for that!
4.Real men are respectful.
They treat people with respect when respect is due… especially when it comes to the women they’re courting. Cheating is lying; it’s breaking trust and it proves that you care little about your partner as a lover, friend and as a human being.
To cheat is to act as if you’re better than she is and the fact is that you aren’t. There”s no right way to doing something wrong! Break her trust and you will never really get her back. Perhaps some here had to learn this the hard way.
5.Real men don’t need to add notches to their belts simply to make themselves feel like men.
Real men know that they’re real men. They can feel it with every step they take – and more often than not it shows. It shows in their demeanor and in their actions. Too many worldly “men” these days believe it’s laudable to sleep with as many women as possible – as if it were some sort of game, and women are collectables of sorts.That”s really bad …so bad and heinous!
Women aren’t objects, and this game that you’re playing is called life. If you get caught cheating and the stakes are high enough then you can ruin your life.
6.Real men would never hurt the woman they love.
To be fair, real men would never hurt any woman, but especially not the woman they understand as being an extension of themselves.They can never stand even seeing the person they love being hurt by somebody or something else .
7.Real men love and care for themselves as well as those who are closest to them.
If you are lucky enough to have found a woman to love (and are luckier still to have her love you back), then do everything in your power to keep her smiling. There is nothing worse in the world than losing a person you love. Mistakes are mistakes… but they aren’t always forgivable.
8.Real men know what’s important in life – and it’s not another piece of a woman. No,not!
Proper men are too busy living the life of their dreams to bother with excess. They are working on attaining all that it is that they want in life, but more importantly still, they understand what it is that they really want.
As men, we often want more than is good for us. Only when we get what we thought we wanted do we come to realize the error of our ways. I will tell you right now that there should only be one woman for you.I said one woman as a mouth !
That one woman who will love you for your entire life is all that really matters. The rest you won’t even remember.Even their names !!!
9.Real men have the guts to break up with a woman.
I know this sounds strange,but it”s the truth.As in,why would you waste your time with a person you see no future with in the first place???
If you plan on cheating on her then you clearly don’t want to be with her.Stop lying to yourself,you don’t love her ,neither are you nearer to that! If you realize you had made a mistake at the first place by choosing the wrong person,and the woman isn’t in the ways of the Lord,(this applies to women too),overcome self pity or regrets and run for your dear life,ask God and seek for that one right person in your life !Grow a pair and break things off. You’re clearly going to do it sooner or later.
Rip that bandaid off and get it over with. Be a real man and not a quivering coward.
Be a Real Man !!!
10.Real men are sure
Real men are sure of what they want in life,they are not just trying their luck as to whether the woman will accept them or love them!No ,they choose the woman that they know fits them best and are ready to move on with and spend the whole of their lives with,under all circumstances,come rain ,come sunshine,by hooks or crooks!It is very true that,a woman by whom you have totally sacrificed and given all your life and yourself for,will be impossible to trade her even for a minute with another woman!If you do truly love a person,you take them as yourself and even more ,becoming so jealous for them and it”d be so hard to let anybody else play with them!Imagine somebody else playing with your woman(I hope you have done that),now put yourself in her shoes!Think of it…..,good,now don”t ever betray your partner!Never!
With that,good luck in being real men and real women!